A complicated answer to a not focused enough question about a TL;DR Article. The social skills like how to say you dissatisfied by someone's action or reaction

A complicated answer to a not focused enough question about a TL;DR Article. The social skills like how to say you dissatisfied by someone's action or reaction is. But is that intelligence ? Affect regulation is closer in my view to emotional intelligence and can be acquiered to some extent but is more akin to language - the earlier the better. And the traits are very dependent on attachment patterns - relationship with caregiver.