I don't think it is but I think there's a bigger problem here. I get a funny feeling in my stomach whenever I see this story surface. It has to do with the lack

I don't think it is but I think there's a bigger problem here. I get a funny feeling in my stomach whenever I see this story surface. It has to do with the lack of communication between the accordion guy and "new girl", the juvenile way he dealt with the trust issues and finally the part people seem to most cheer the "gotcha" Columbo moment. I just can't see how that should be a point of satisfaction. In any relationship, enjoy yourself, but don't overreach what it means to you, build trust slowly. And if you feel played you probably are. People like "new girl" like to rush things, slow it down and they'll become quite obvious. I feel like I'm reliving saved by the bell.