And yet you see now that they have a happy, love filled marriage right now based on serving and loving each other before themselves. I don't think many people a

And yet you see now that they have a happy, love filled marriage right now based on serving and loving each other before themselves. I don't think many people are in a position to criticize that. FYIW my wife and I got engaged after 2.5 months, married after 4.5 total. We definitely had the lovey dovey feelings but knew going into this that the important thing over the long term was to love each other with our actions. We have a wonderful marriage now that is so much richer and our connection so much more tangible than when we were dating. It blows away any prior relationship I had, including many year dating relationships.