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I wonder about this. Why can't a person have some criteria to narrow the pool, and from that subset select for love? It would be different if they took the firs
by 6ren 13y ago
I wonder about this. Why can't a person have some criteria to narrow the pool, and from that subset select for love? It would be different if they took the first person who came along with financial stability, if that was the only thing that mattered.
If a person aims to have a family, financial stability is important. Note, I don't believe that kids actually need financial stability all that much, but the stress and conflict between parents commonly caused by financial instability definitely do affect them.
- jacquesm 13y agoFinancial situations that are attributable to state of employment are subject to violent and sudden change. They're not a good basis for any future predictions, especially not for viability of a relationship.
- dragonwriter 13y ago> I wonder about this. Why can't a person have some criteria to narrow the pool, and from that subset select for love? Pretty much everyone does (whether they are explicit or not), and pretty much everyone resents potential partners that do, to the extent that they end up getting weeded out by the filters.