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Jesus, the casual misogyny in this article is staggering.
by gonnakillme 13y ago
Jesus, the casual misogyny in this article is staggering.
- sheraz 13y agoA little dramatic, are we? There is no misogyny in this story. Oh, and I'm thinking of using Laravel for my latest project. Seems to do a lot of what I need without building factories. I think frameworks have evolved since then.
- 14113 13y agoSo I'm assuming you missed all the references to murdering ex-girlfriends? I found it really unsettling, and somewhat sickening to read.
- sheraz 13y agoYou mean ll two of them? Yeah, and they were simply part of the story. Grow a backbonejs already. (see what I did there?) In that case I suggest you stay away from most literature, film, and the humanities in general.
- 14113 13y agoSorry that I don't find references, in the middle of a tech article, to killing people in brutal, vicious ways all that appealing. Sure, I'll happily watch a slasher flick, but that's the time and the place for that. This is completely the wrong context, and exactly the kind of thing driving women out of tech.
- BillyMaize 13y agomisogyny - Hatred of women. How does that have anything to do with the article? You must mean some other word.
- gonnakillme 13y agoSorry for being unclear -- I'm referring to these parts: > And, if you want to kill your ex-girlfriend, there's really no substitute for a ball-peen hammer. > (Maybe they've never had ex-girlfriends. Or maybe they killed them with icepicks instead.)
- zemo 13y agoYou do not need to apologize. You are not being unclear.
- VLM 13y agoIts not like the story would have been any less unsavory if he was talking about his boyfriend. My gut level guess, is this being an extremely old argument, the headline for this one was adjacent to a Reiser headline, so its more of a bad taste style of the times than a long term trend or hidden social bias.
- gonnakillme 13y agoIt /would/ have been less unsavory if he were talking about his boyfriend, though; women are exposed to violence (especially in relationships) in a way and at a scale that men just aren't. The way this is presented -- of /course/ everyone can relate to wanting to kill their ex-girlfriend -- is especially gross. I'm not sure what Hans Reiser has to do with anything and it's a little strange that you brought him up. Wikipedia says Nina Reiser's disappearance was in 2006, a year after this post was made.
- VLM 13y agoThank you for the second paragraph you are completely correct and I was wrong about the chronological order of those events. On the other hand I think we are going to have to disagree on your first paragraph. I think you have a perfectly good axe, I just wouldn't grind it there. That component of the original article sucks as a writing strategy without bringing male/female drama into the picture clouding the overall issue of using images of violence inappropriately. I wouldn't downvote you for it, but someone apparently is doing so, which is too bad.
- jeremysmyth 13y agoHuh?
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