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OK, I hear you, I do. You say you want to cut off. At least, that's what you think you want. Is it possible this is an over-reaction? You say you want out of
by PeterWhittaker 13y ago
OK, I hear you, I do. You say you want to cut off.
At least, that's what you think you want. Is it possible this is an over-reaction?
You say you want out of the concrete jungle. That seems more plausible.
You're in Canada, so I'm guessing GTA or Vancouver?
Before heading "up north" (if you haven't been, you have no idea, sorry - don't mean to patronize, but you don't - one doesn't just "go up north" without having visited with competent guides), why not head out of town for a bit? If you are GTA, why not Perth or Smith's Falls or Arnprior? (Yeah, these are more my neck of the woods, but you need to get far from your neck to get to the woods, know what I mean?)
Consider a change of pace, before considering a harsh and radical cut off. Maybe some place that still has running water and electricity and where the amenities of civilization are only 1-3 hours away by car.
Rent a farm north of Bancroft, near Algonquin. Someplace rural but with folks not so far away. Close enough but not too far, you know?
You want even more remote, but still sort of civilized? How about Fermont, QC? (Last spot before Labrador, road pretty much ends there.)
If you're not GTA, folks from your neck of the woods can suggest places comparable to the above....
(I moved to T.O. after university - small place out east - and I hated the jungle, it went on forever. Moved to Ottawa after a couple of years. Been here over 23. It's grown, but it's way less jungle than the GTA. I'm in the burbs, I can be on a farm in 5 minutes and not see anyone for miles....)
Heck, why not just go canoeing in Algonquin for a week? A buddy of mine unplugs that way for a week every year - keeps him sane, and it's a less radical prescription.
- rfnslyr 13y agoYes I want to cut off. Yes I want to be gone 6 months to a year with no connection to my current world. Algonquin canoeing, I can do that, but for a few months at the very least. I want a unique experience. I want to be so out of my comfort zone I question all life as I know it. Actually the canoeing/water idea is incredible. It'd be great to travel by water for a few months on a boat.
- Sagat 13y agoIf you have never done this before, I think going on a six month trip is too ambitious. I suggest starting with two weeks first, and then continuing only if you still feel comfortable. An extreme change of lifestyle is more difficult than you think. I also think that the hermit life has been overly romanticized. It might not necessarily solve the underlying problem, which I assume is your frustration with your current routine. Not everyone is Thoreau or Emerson. IMHO it's more worthwhile to do something active (a hiking trip with friends for example) in nature than to just isolate yourself. Some of my best memories have been week long trips in nature with a handful of close pals. I remember going almost insane with modern life and seeing all the anger and hatred fade away after a few weeks of physical activity in a new setting. That said I think your desire to abandon technology for a while and taste freedom is laudable. Good luck to you, sir. All I ask is that you do not abandon human contact but instead seek new people to meet.