I don't have specific advice (my methods of coping were not the most healthy), but I can commiserate. My first year up here was harrowingly lonely. I chalk that

I don't have specific advice (my methods of coping were not the most healthy), but I can commiserate. My first year up here was harrowingly lonely. I chalk that partially up to the neighborhood I ended up in first (Astoria). It does take longer to make true friends here. But it does get better. It felt like every other week I was internally debating dropping everything and moving back home. But now... I can't imagine living anywhere else. If you'd like to grab a coffee or a beer some time, check my profile for my email address.