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I take it that you're not a "person who wears a suit"? The reality of the business world is that those who control the money are often "people who wear suits".

I take it that you're not a "person who wears a suit"? The reality of the business world is that those who control the money are often "people who wear suits". This is especially true when large sums of money are involved. If a given business wants such people (and the organizations they represent) as clients, then the business will need to conform to the expectations of these potential clients. The impact of such conformance can be even greater on a startup, which may not have much leeway or influence in such dealings. I'm not "defending" nor "promoting" what happened in this case; the details are much too vague. I'm merely pointing out that there are factors at play in the real world which may make such decisions more plausible and more comprehensible.

nknighthb 13y ago
> I take it that you're not a "person who wears a suit"? I'm a person whose life experience tells me anyone wearing a suit is, to a very high degree of probability, evil, stupid, or both. Do your justifications work both ways or not? If it's just fine to discriminate against someone for not wearing a suit, is it equally fine for me to discriminate against someone for wearing a suit? > the business will need to conform to the expectations of these potential clients If people would stop appeasing these idiots and instead do the ethical thing by telling them to take a hike, it wouldn't be an issue.
- PommeDeTerre 13y ago
  Of course you can distrust somebody who wears a suit. I didn't say that you couldn't, or that you shouldn't. You keep forgetting about the context we're discussing here, though: real-world business dealings. When one party has money, and the other party wants some of it, the party with the money generally sets the tone of the business relationship. This may involve certain expectations with respect to how the people they deal with appear and behave. Yes, maybe startups seeking business relationships with larger, wealthier organizations shouldn't put up with expectations that they feel are unreasonable. But that's not how the real world works, unfortunately. If money is to be made, then some sacrifices of various forms will very likely need to be made. I'm merely pointing out this very real fact of today's business world, and how it's plausible that appearance can play a very significant role in business relationships.
  - nknighthb 13y ago
    > Of course you can distrust somebody who wears a suit. I didn't say distrust, I said discriminate against. As in, "I don't like that you wear a suit, so you're fired.". > I'm merely pointing out this very real fact of today's business world, and how it's plausible that appearance can play a very significant role in business relationships. You're pointing out that many people are willing to be unethical to make money. This is neither surprising nor interesting. It is, however, disgusting, and doubly so because the appeasement is the only thing that allows it to persist in the first place. If the person with money had trouble finding vendors who lived up to their arbitrary expectations, the incentive would exist to change those expectations.
- jackmaney 13y ago
  "...anyone wearing a suit is, to a very high degree of probability, evil, stupid, or both." Or at a job interview.
  - nknighthb 13y ago
    I've never worn a suit to a job interview, and would not tolerate working for a company where I was expected to. As an interviewer, I've encountered only a couple people who did wear suits. Definitely lived down to the stereotype.
    - jackmaney 13y ago
      For job interviews--and only job interviews--I tend to dress up to something between a button-up silk dress shirt with pressed slacks and no tie to a full suit. I've mostly done the latter in a previous career (academia) where it was expected for interviews.
      - nknighthb 13y ago
        > academia Do you understand that you're reinforcing the stereotype?

nknighthb 13y ago

> I take it that you're not a "person who wears a suit"? I'm a person whose life experience tells me anyone wearing a suit is, to a very high degree of probability, evil, stupid, or both. Do your justifications work both ways or not? If it's just fine to discriminate against someone for not wearing a suit, is it equally fine for me to discriminate against someone for wearing a suit? > the business will need to conform to the expectations of these potential clients If people would stop appeasing these idiots and instead do the ethical thing by telling them to take a hike, it wouldn't be an issue.

PommeDeTerre 13y ago
Of course you can distrust somebody who wears a suit. I didn't say that you couldn't, or that you shouldn't. You keep forgetting about the context we're discussing here, though: real-world business dealings. When one party has money, and the other party wants some of it, the party with the money generally sets the tone of the business relationship. This may involve certain expectations with respect to how the people they deal with appear and behave. Yes, maybe startups seeking business relationships with larger, wealthier organizations shouldn't put up with expectations that they feel are unreasonable. But that's not how the real world works, unfortunately. If money is to be made, then some sacrifices of various forms will very likely need to be made. I'm merely pointing out this very real fact of today's business world, and how it's plausible that appearance can play a very significant role in business relationships.
- nknighthb 13y ago
  > Of course you can distrust somebody who wears a suit. I didn't say distrust, I said discriminate against. As in, "I don't like that you wear a suit, so you're fired.". > I'm merely pointing out this very real fact of today's business world, and how it's plausible that appearance can play a very significant role in business relationships. You're pointing out that many people are willing to be unethical to make money. This is neither surprising nor interesting. It is, however, disgusting, and doubly so because the appeasement is the only thing that allows it to persist in the first place. If the person with money had trouble finding vendors who lived up to their arbitrary expectations, the incentive would exist to change those expectations.
jackmaney 13y ago
"...anyone wearing a suit is, to a very high degree of probability, evil, stupid, or both." Or at a job interview.
- nknighthb 13y ago
  I've never worn a suit to a job interview, and would not tolerate working for a company where I was expected to. As an interviewer, I've encountered only a couple people who did wear suits. Definitely lived down to the stereotype.
  - jackmaney 13y ago
    For job interviews--and only job interviews--I tend to dress up to something between a button-up silk dress shirt with pressed slacks and no tie to a full suit. I've mostly done the latter in a previous career (academia) where it was expected for interviews.
    - nknighthb 13y ago
      > academia Do you understand that you're reinforcing the stereotype?