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The fact that this has been going on for years, and that you feel the procrastination is holding you back from your full potential does sound like it could be A
by skue 13y ago
The fact that this has been going on for years, and that you feel the procrastination is holding you back from your full potential does sound like it could be ADHD, as others have mentioned. Also, ADHD tends to run in families. So if your dad is the same way...
Most people associate ADHD with kids who struggle in school. But highly intelligent people can have it too. It still holds them back from reaching their potential, it's just that their potential is much greater.
Here are some things to ask yourself:
* Do you also procrastinate non-work things such as buying gifts, paying bills, calling people back?
* What is your home like: Do you have a lot of half-finished projects, "piles", or chores that never get finished?
* Are you always running late because you are busy doing other things, or underestimate what you need to do to get out the door and get to your destination?
* Do people tell you that you frequently interrupt others when they are talking?
* Would you describe yourself as a risk taker and more prone to high adrenaline activities? How the friends you keep?
* Are you only able to focus with the help of caffeine, guarana (eg, Vitamin Water Energy), or other energy drinks?
* Do you use nicotine to relax or be more focused? (If so, please stop and see a doctor.)
* Do you use alcohol, not to get drunk or for the drink itself, but as a way to unwind or slow down at the end of the day?
This is a good book: http://www.amazon.com/Driven-Distraction-Revised-Recognizing-Attention/dp/0307743152 http://www.amazon.com/Driven-Distraction-Revised-Recognizing..., which reminds me of another question:
* Do you buy/start a lot of books, but rarely seem to finish them?
Read enough of the book to see if this resonates with you. If it does, the next step would be to talk to (a) your doctor if you have one, or (b) find a psychiatrist in your area who specializes in ADHD. The book can help you find resources.
Edit: Just to be clear, this list is NOT meant to be diagnostic. Although I happen to have an MD, I am NOT a practicing physician no one should assume they have ADHD based on any list like this. I would only say that if many of these things hold overwhelmingly true for the OP, then it might be worth learning more about ADHD and finding a professional to begin a conversation.
Yes, ADHD and meds sparks a lot of cynicism in some people. However, one reason I recommended that book is that the authors present a balanced approach to meds. One of the authors has ADHD, but doesn't find that meds make much of a difference for him (they reportedly are ineffective for 25% of adults with ADHD). But they have helped many of his patients and his own son.
- jmagoon 13y agoIs it odd that this sounds like normal human behavior to me?
- TheZenPsycho 13y agoNope. Pathologising the normal range of human behavior is a popular activity of neurotic western privileged people. Or whatever the mental illness that's trending at the moment.
- skue 13y agoBefore I went to med school, I was similarly skeptical about the med/pharma industry. But like the global warming debate, once you understand the science, you begin to realize how facile the conspiracy theories are. Here's the science behind ADHD: Functional MRI allows us to image actual brain activity. And there are clear differences between the brains of those diagnosed with ADHD and those diagnosed without (and yes, they do these studies blind, so researchers can't be biased). And more recently they have found that stimulants such as methylphenidate (aka Ritalin) and others actually reverse these changes. Here is a recent study, plus a metareview (which compared several such studies): http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23247506 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23247506 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23660970 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23660970 Of course, we could still have an interesting philosophical discussion about what we label a medical condition and what are variations of normal that nevertheless have a biological basis. Clearly, ADHD is not on par with debilitating psychiatric conditions such as schizophrenia or a bipolar manic episode. But ADHD can cause functional impairment in school, jobs, and personal relationships; it can lead to decreased happiness and satisfaction in life (and not only for the person affected, but also their families, partners, and colleagues); there are clear neurophysiological differences underlying it; and we have treatments that can make an important difference. So why not use them? And as for the big drug companies? Most of the ADHD drugs are generic these days, so they don't profit.
- TheZenPsycho 13y agoLook, I am not disputing that ADHD is a very real thing. What I am being sarcastic about, is this completely unrelated thing that people on the internet do, this game of "Guess the mental illness", which usually isn't very helpful.