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I had the same problem. The standard school program was easy enough to just coast through, as were my first few jobs. At one point I was working on Monday and g

I had the same problem. The standard school program was easy enough to just coast through, as were my first few jobs. At one point I was working on Monday and goofing off the rest of the week. What changed it? Probably some of it was age. Your outlook on life and what's important changes as you get older. I spent a fair bit of time talking to people 10, 20, 30, and 40 years older than me, and while I usually didn't agree with them, I did remember their words. After 10 years I was rather shocked at how my outlook had changed. Now it's coming up to 20 and I've definitely changed yet again. How do you achieve the wisdom of age without actually having to spend years aging? Beats me! But I sure learned to appreciate it regardless. Another thing that happened is I started taking on harder and harder things. It didn't matter what, so long as it was difficult enough that it would take me years to master. Boxing, welding, classical guitar, open source projects, running a business. I just kept adding things on until I didn't have enough time to even breathe. Then I somehow managed to find the time to get all these things done. And then I piled on more, until I finally reached the point where I literally did not have enough hours in the day to get everything done. Then I dropped some stuff until I felt comfortable again. Now I no longer have time for video games or TV (except for the odd time when I'm taking a sanity break, which is maybe once a week for a couple of hours). I have shit to do and a daily routine that gets it done. I had to organize my life because I had too much stuff to do! Now I deliberately carve out time to be with friends or do something crazy. Otherwise I'm busy at work, practicing one of my hobbies, or I'm at home on a Sunday, deliberately doing nothing all day because I've scheduled a "do nothing" day. So my advice to tackle procrastination would be: Fill your life with so much stuff that you can't afford to procrastinate (It's even better to get into a few things you can't get out of easily). You'll figure out how to organize yourself. Then you back off a bit to get some balance back into your life.

procastatron 13y ago
I think your mindset might be a bit different than mine. Or at least my current one. I have a ton of really challenging, awesome stuff to do. I just have been conditioned to hate "work". I feel insanely good when I'm procrastinating but get hit with an awful few hours later. Whenever I put a shit ton on my plate, I do 0 of it. I know I should be able to get it all done but the thought of "work" prevents me. I consume a shit ton of information when I'm not working and as a result I'm actually really good at given other people ideas. I gave my cousin an idea and drew up a business plan that now nets him a very lucrative income on the side. I helped grow a brand from 1k to 100k followers just by giving them social media advice and some hacks I learned from observing Ryan Holiday and Tim Ferriss. I'm great at giving others a push start and I've been told I'm a good motivator. I just have low self confidence in some areas and suck at finishing anything
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  - TheSOB88 13y ago
    Feynman considered working out those equations for those complex physical things "fun". He must have been an extraordinarily talented thinker because that sounds like work to me. What's fun to me? Swimming. I enjoyed working on my last project at work, but it wasn't "fun"; I had to constantly force myself to get started and keep up the momentum each day. My mind is infested with so many little demons. For some reason, lately anything that requires effort shuts down the reward centers of my brain.
- read 13y ago
  You might be procrastinating for the right reason: that you are currently working on things that are not that important. If you were free to do anything in the world, what would that be?
ww520 13y ago
What were some of the stuff people 10, 20, 30, and 40 years older said? It would be really interesting to see what the elder wisdom are.
- procastatron 13y ago
  Yes, I'm curious too
- kstenerud 13y ago
  A few stuck out in particular: - Don't be in such a goddam rush. - You'll look back at the risks you took when you were younger and wonder what the hell possessed you to take them. On the other hand, they make for great stories that you'll treasure forever. - Losing everything isn't so bad. You move on. - You'll always think you have the world figured out, but you won't. - What you think is important today will probably seem trivial in 10 years. - The older you get, the more you tend to treasure relationships over status. This becomes doubly true when you're a father, and quadrupally true when you're a grandfather. - Your circle of friends will shrink. Keep close friends close. - Your family, no matter how fucked up, is still your family. - A life without adversity makes you weak. - Don't start a fight, but don't shy away from one either. - You're not forever young. - Stay in shape. The older you get, the harder it is to maintain your body (and the harder it is to START getting into shape!). It sucks needing assistance just to move around. - People don't want to hear your complaints, but when you're old enough, they'll have no choice but to listen to your crap.

procastatron 13y ago

I think your mindset might be a bit different than mine. Or at least my current one. I have a ton of really challenging, awesome stuff to do. I just have been conditioned to hate "work". I feel insanely good when I'm procrastinating but get hit with an awful few hours later. Whenever I put a shit ton on my plate, I do 0 of it. I know I should be able to get it all done but the thought of "work" prevents me. I consume a shit ton of information when I'm not working and as a result I'm actually really good at given other people ideas. I gave my cousin an idea and drew up a business plan that now nets him a very lucrative income on the side. I helped grow a brand from 1k to 100k followers just by giving them social media advice and some hacks I learned from observing Ryan Holiday and Tim Ferriss. I'm great at giving others a push start and I've been told I'm a good motivator. I just have low self confidence in some areas and suck at finishing anything

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- TheSOB88 13y ago
  Feynman considered working out those equations for those complex physical things "fun". He must have been an extraordinarily talented thinker because that sounds like work to me. What's fun to me? Swimming. I enjoyed working on my last project at work, but it wasn't "fun"; I had to constantly force myself to get started and keep up the momentum each day. My mind is infested with so many little demons. For some reason, lately anything that requires effort shuts down the reward centers of my brain.
read 13y ago
You might be procrastinating for the right reason: that you are currently working on things that are not that important. If you were free to do anything in the world, what would that be?

ww520 13y ago

What were some of the stuff people 10, 20, 30, and 40 years older said? It would be really interesting to see what the elder wisdom are.

procastatron 13y ago
Yes, I'm curious too
kstenerud 13y ago
A few stuck out in particular: - Don't be in such a goddam rush. - You'll look back at the risks you took when you were younger and wonder what the hell possessed you to take them. On the other hand, they make for great stories that you'll treasure forever. - Losing everything isn't so bad. You move on. - You'll always think you have the world figured out, but you won't. - What you think is important today will probably seem trivial in 10 years. - The older you get, the more you tend to treasure relationships over status. This becomes doubly true when you're a father, and quadrupally true when you're a grandfather. - Your circle of friends will shrink. Keep close friends close. - Your family, no matter how fucked up, is still your family. - A life without adversity makes you weak. - Don't start a fight, but don't shy away from one either. - You're not forever young. - Stay in shape. The older you get, the harder it is to maintain your body (and the harder it is to START getting into shape!). It sucks needing assistance just to move around. - People don't want to hear your complaints, but when you're old enough, they'll have no choice but to listen to your crap.