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I dumb myself down occasionally when I realize I'm making the person I'm talking to feel bad. I used to just keep on educating/making corrections for people un
by kgc 17y ago
I dumb myself down occasionally when I realize I'm making the person I'm talking to feel bad.
I used to just keep on educating/making corrections for people until I realized that the primary purpose of socializing in the majority of cases isn't necessarily for communication, but for camaraderie.
Now, instead of going off on intellectual monologues, I simply ask clarifying questions or make jokes that make us all laugh and realize the correct answer as a group.
I usually guide other people in the group to announce the conclusions in order to not seem like I'm picking on the target.