> But then if it is supposed to illustrate patterns of behavior, does it mean you do things with your social group that you don't enjoy? Yes, as they do with m

> But then if it is supposed to illustrate patterns of behavior, does it mean you do things with your social group that you don't enjoy? Yes, as they do with me. Compromise is part of what builds good relationships. To me, it's about weighing the pros and cons of situation. eg. Pros: I'll be with my friends and we usually have a good time together Cons: I don't enjoy visiting strip clubs If I don't go with them, what do I do? Stay at home, go out on my own, or hook up with other people? At the time none of these were desirable. The cons outweighed the pros, so I decided to join them. This is generally how I tackle things.