You sound like you're torn between Niles & Frasier Crane and the cast of Friends! FWIW, I have a LOT of different interests, and I get really cheesed off by on

You sound like you're torn between Niles & Frasier Crane and the cast of Friends! FWIW, I have a LOT of different interests, and I get really cheesed off by one group of nerdy friends who are anxious to put down anything popular but am similarly frustrated by normal people who won't branch out of their comfort zone and look at the world through a different lens. I'm not a computer buff by trade or training but I suspect this is a problem that has nothing to do with intelligence. It often seems to have more to do with not wanting to admit to knowing/not knowing about something so as not to appear too 'different'. I think it's a rut one can get out of through travelling/ moving/working somewhere new, because being suddenly forced to make new friends as an adult can encourage honesty and a re-evaluation of what is important. Good luck, however you choose to tackle this problem.