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I don't know what the truth is, but doing something you aren't good at, and aren't improving at, is also draining.
by 10ren 17y ago
I don't know what the truth is, but doing something you aren't good at, and aren't improving at, is also draining.
- rw140 17y agoTrue, but not necessarily the case here. I'm an introvert who is getting significantly better at acting outgoing when necessary, but being sociable seems to keep a similar level of effort.
- itgoon 17y agoHeh. It isn't the case here, but you have to "act outgoing"? If you had practice, you don't have to act. Yes, I'm an introvert, too, and I understand exactly what you're talking about. The diff is that how much I'm "drained" depends on the group of people. I have quite a few friends with whom I'm close enough to just be myself, to not "act". They don't drain me at all. I just eventually run out of things to talk about, unlike the extroverts who find more to talk about. A group of co-workers? That is tiring, because it takes a lot of effort to act that nice.