> I'm glad my wife has promised that ... I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you this, but those promises fly out the window as soon as times get tough. N

> I'm glad my wife has promised that ... I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you this, but those promises fly out the window as soon as times get tough. No matter what you think she thinks of you, when the kids come and times get tough, she will look at you and weigh having you around vs. having automatic custody of the kids + child support + alimony.