The tone/anger is part of the communication. But you can be 'angry because you suck' or you can be 'angry because I believe you are better than that'. It's a

The tone/anger is part of the communication. But you can be 'angry because you suck' or you can be 'angry because I believe you are better than that'. It's a world of difference. PG has the decided advantage of having an audience that knows he believes that they are capable of greatness. That makes it a lot easier to say things like that. I'd say that, for me, respect and tolerance is closely related. My point is that you need to consider how your audience will hear what you say which is, by definition, a filter. Some of my employees need constant feedback about how they are doing. Some just need a nudge. Knowing the difference is really important.