Thank you for giving the most reasonable comment in this entire discussion. You're absolutely right, there is no way for us to objectively judge whether they wi

Thank you for giving the most reasonable comment in this entire discussion. You're absolutely right, there is no way for us to objectively judge whether they will benefit from our 'help' or not. I don't know for sure if not contacting them is the best way for them. However, they make it clear that they don't appreciate our contacting them. I think that as long as they're not asking for our help and/or are in apparent need for help, we should let them be.