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It's probable that you had stronger psychological fortitude in the first place than many people. Not everyone comes to the feel-control realization on their own
by obstacle1 13y ago
It's probable that you had stronger psychological fortitude in the first place than many people. Not everyone comes to the feel-control realization on their own, some require intense relearning (therapy, counselling, etc.) to figure it out. Many people never make the connection.
- ceejayoz 13y agoIt's also possible that one person's "intense bullying" is another's "gee, I wish my bullying was that low-grade".
- talmand 13y agoOh, in that case bullying is ok as long as enough people agree that it's low-grade? It's also possible that one person's "low-grade bullying" is another's "gee, I'm glad my bullying is not that bad".
- ceejayoz 13y agoNot at all. I'm simply pointing out that without details on the bullying, it's entirely possible that @throwit1979 has little or no experience with the sort of viciousness that causes psychological problems for those verbally abused, resulting in the seemingly ignorant opinion that everyone has the power to fully control their emotions and behaviour.