> I guess all I'm saying is that not establishing contact is also a choice that we're making on their behalf. It's also a choice that they are making for thems

> I guess all I'm saying is that not establishing contact is also a choice that we're making on their behalf. It's also a choice that they are making for themselves. It may or may not be a fully informed choice, but they are making their opinions pretty clear. They certainly aren't coming across as a group of people looking desperately to some outside group to save them from anything.