Almost all my open source work was in my volunteer free time as well. And I try to be very polite and nice to others in my open source work as well as in my reg

Almost all my open source work was in my volunteer free time as well. And I try to be very polite and nice to others in my open source work as well as in my regular work and on forums. But I don't try to impose my standards, or any work place standard, upon others. Why do you think there is any abuse? If you see 2 guys in the street, one insulting the other one, how do you know there is any abuse? Couldn't they be very good friends that have been talking to each other like that since years? In this case, is there any abuse?