I think he succeeds to express what he actually wants to say, he just doesn't talk with your conscience, IMHO rightly: the emotions towards something is not a c

I think he succeeds to express what he actually wants to say, he just doesn't talk with your conscience, IMHO rightly: the emotions towards something is not a conscience matter, so it is worthless to communicate them to your conscience; it's better to talk with the part of your brain involved with emotions. About "despises being nice" this seem to me just a trait of an egocentric personality, which is fairly common in our individualist society between overachiever people (Steve Jobs is a classic example). I don't mean it is a pleasant behaviour, but frankly as citizen of a west country I'm used to it.