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Personal anecdotes are a person's local data set. Its why statistics are needed, by putting lots of personal data sets together we get around this he-said/she-s
by geuis 18y ago
Personal anecdotes are a person's local data set. Its why statistics are needed, by putting lots of personal data sets together we get around this he-said/she-said bs. Essentially what I mean is that the term "personal anecdotes" is often used as a way to summarily dismiss someone's accounts.
Personal anecdotes are very much at the core of this matter. Dismissing someone's extensive personal experiences about the effects of alcoholism on their friends and families is not irrelevant.
My brother: recovering alcoholic, dry for 10 years.
His father: lifelong alcoholic, died too young from an accident caused by being drunk at the time. Had lost his leg years ago in an accident.
Uncle and his wife: alcoholics, not recovering. NOT the life of the party at family reunions.
Good friend: known over 10 years, he drinks like a fish. Gets extremely sad at times and I worry about him, a lot.
Another friend that I was seeing/dating for a while: sweet girl when she doesn't drink. However, 90% of the time she's a violent, unpredictable raging tornado of whiskey.
So while I'm glad that you know four quote "serious musicians" for whom drinking helps, I'll stick with my personal anecdotes of drinking ruining people's lives and causing them to die earlier than they should have. I'm just glad I have my brother around now.
- sho 18y agoHey, I wasn't trying to downplay your personal experiences. They do sound harrowing and I'm sure they've shaped your opinions, perhaps rightly so. I was simply trying to point out that neither your nor my single data points mean much in the grand equation. You seemed to be trying to deny that alcohol can ever have this positive effect on people. I merely wanted to counter your data point with one of my own, and remind you that not only are our experiences insignificant in the final reckoning, but that the are plenty of well-evidenced cases in contradiction to what I perceived to be your thesis. Anyway, nothing personal, and I really hope it all works out better for you and yours.