I'm not suggesting an answer. I'm posing a thought experiment. I think it's a reasonably good analogy. My answer is probably odd- I'd want to know if I was the

I'm not suggesting an answer. I'm posing a thought experiment. I think it's a reasonably good analogy. My answer is probably odd- I'd want to know if I was the possible jiltee, but I don't know if I'd say that it should be revealed for ALL people.