Except almost no one has any idea what the American median is, or the Brazillian median is. These are large diverse countries with huge internal variation to w

Except almost no one has any idea what the American median is, or the Brazillian median is. These are large diverse countries with huge internal variation to which you have not been exposed. New York is a lot more like London than Silicon Valley, even though New York and Silicon Valley are part of America and London is part of England. Even within New York. there's huge variation that most people are unlikely to have full understanding of. A small design studio in Dumbo, a large financial institution in financial district and an advertising company in Midtown are going to have completely different cultures and norms. If someone tells you, in our country, people are like this, the chance is that you're being mislead. Lots of people tell me that in their country of origin, there are no gay people or something along those lines. People have a very narrow view of what constitutes their own national culture, largely oriented around their own peculiar and individual experience.