How is "typical male-tech resentment for being called creepy" functionally any different for the female job candidate? "No, he's not sexist, he just doesn't li

How is "typical male-tech resentment for being called creepy" functionally any different for the female job candidate? "No, he's not sexist, he just doesn't like women... for good reason!" "No, he's not sexist, he just can't talk to women... for good reason!" "No, he's not sexist, he just has seizures when he sees the color pink, and women are more likely to wear pink." Who cares? The woman still doesn't get the job. The excuses are equivalent to a student saying they deserve an A for trying hard and having extenuating circumstances though they can't actually do what they're graded on. People take "sexist" and "racist" to describe intent. I don't give a s(*& about your intent. It's the effect that's relevant.