Actually I just meant that it's not unusual for 14 year olds to be generally attractive. Some teenagers are models and actresses and popular because of their ma

Actually I just meant that it's not unusual for 14 year olds to be generally attractive. Some teenagers are models and actresses and popular because of their mature looks. If you seek out relationships with 14 year olds, then that's some kind of paraphilia, but if a teenager (virtual or otherwise) starts making the moves on an adult man, then you just hope he has the willpower and sense to say no even though, biologically, you couldn't blame him for being interested.