you just choose to not understand my point, working in mine is also hard work , working in mine for free is hard work and plain stupid I don't consider family

you just choose to not understand my point, working in mine is also hard work , working in mine for free is hard work and plain stupid I don't consider family interactions work , it can be hard but it is not my definition of work. You can stretch definition to suit your justification of your lifestyle but I am happy with my 133 hours/week left for me after I call quits :-) YMMW