Just curious why you feel so paranoid about "conforming"? I feel like until somebody tells you that you "must" dress some way, then anything else is just opini

Just curious why you feel so paranoid about "conforming"? I feel like until somebody tells you that you "must" dress some way, then anything else is just opinion that you may or may not agree with. There is so much anger directed towards the top post on this thread because he shares his opinions on mens haberdashery. My bottom line is that when I wear a suit that fits me like a glove, when I have a crisp, clean collar stand up against the back of my neck, when I slip on a nice pair of shoes -- carefully crafted and made with great materials, the kind that will last you easily 20 years -- when I do all that, I always just feel so good about how I look and how I feel. Sometimes a tie isn't comfortable. So sometimes I endure the discomfort for a specific reason, other times I just don't wear a tie. But I never bristle with the anger at 'conformity' so I thought I'd ask you.