Oooohh!! Hey I will have a look at some of these myself. But what would some of ye with experience recommend for... irc/sharing some files with a network of fri

Oooohh!! Hey I will have a look at some of these myself. But what would some of ye with experience recommend for... irc/sharing some files with a network of friends only? I'd like to be able to have private chats with only one or multiple people aswell. cheers!