That may be true. A lot of people, however, choose to have kids only because they think kids will bring joy to their life, not the other way around, which makes

That may be true. A lot of people, however, choose to have kids only because they think kids will bring joy to their life, not the other way around, which makes for a terrible relationship dynamic. In other words, a couple becomes bored of their stable life. They think - oh, maybe a kid will make our lives more exciting.