> I make a big show out of interacting with my boys and obviously being their father, but it's really grating that it's even necessary at all. I wanted to disa

> I make a big show out of interacting with my boys and obviously being their father, but it's really grating that it's even necessary at all. I wanted to disagree with you, but when I read that, I realized that I do the same thing. And as much as I want to play with my boys, I'm also consciously doing it for the reasons you mentioned. I also realize that my interaction with other children is tempered by the realities that I'm a guy. And those thoughts are always lurking there.