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Ugh...my wife is deathly afraid of flying. She is in Canada now and flying back to SFO next week. I hope she doesn't hear about this.

AndyKelley 13y ago
Point out that the fact that this is newsworthy underscores how rare of an occurrence it is.
- arrrg 13y ago
  I doubt that really helps with those types of fears … It’s possible to have a complete and rational understanding of the situation and still feel fear. That, at least, frequently happens to me.
- LaGrange 13y ago
  My friend with flight anxiety actually got it from researching airplane safety. While they did learn about probabilities n'all, they also learned about way too many details, after which every single sound seems like the oscillating electron pump failure on Molvania flight 52317 where nobody survived the spontaneous atmosphere exit. It's not exactly rational, it's your silly brain suddenly deciding the specific probability of gruesome death went from epsilon to 99%, and anxiety going through the roof. Solution: sleeping pills, apparently, or generally anti-anxiety and good contact with flight staff (thus ability to find "safe feeling" seats). In the specific case.
  - jarfcl 13y ago
    I would recommend trying private airplane lessons (on a calm day) Being in control of an airplane helps a lot, and that feeling may transfer to commercial flights.
    - saraid216 13y ago
      I suspect this is what makes people feel that a car is safer: they themselves are in control, and can believe that they'd miraculously dodge any crashes through skill and luck. I don't know if that sense of control is transferable, though; paranoid backseat drivers are still a thing.
    - LaGrange 13y ago
      She tried. It was actually no problem, but didn't help. Apparently the lack of impact (i.e. "I'm gonna die and can't do anything about it") is exactly the point. In some ways it's hilariously similar to my social anxieties.
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  - leot 13y ago
    I remind myself that the vast majority of people who fly and steward planes all day, every day, live to a ripe old age.
zhoutong 13y ago
I was scheduled to arrive in SFO today and now my flight is canceled.
dllthomas 13y ago
If she does, it might be worth pointing out that there was apparently little-if-any loss of life (though we certainly don't have all the details yet...)
- dllthomas 13y ago
  Apparently it was two dead, others injured.

AndyKelley 13y ago

Point out that the fact that this is newsworthy underscores how rare of an occurrence it is.

arrrg 13y ago
I doubt that really helps with those types of fears … It’s possible to have a complete and rational understanding of the situation and still feel fear. That, at least, frequently happens to me.
LaGrange 13y ago
My friend with flight anxiety actually got it from researching airplane safety. While they did learn about probabilities n'all, they also learned about way too many details, after which every single sound seems like the oscillating electron pump failure on Molvania flight 52317 where nobody survived the spontaneous atmosphere exit. It's not exactly rational, it's your silly brain suddenly deciding the specific probability of gruesome death went from epsilon to 99%, and anxiety going through the roof. Solution: sleeping pills, apparently, or generally anti-anxiety and good contact with flight staff (thus ability to find "safe feeling" seats). In the specific case.
- jarfcl 13y ago
  I would recommend trying private airplane lessons (on a calm day) Being in control of an airplane helps a lot, and that feeling may transfer to commercial flights.
  - saraid216 13y ago
    I suspect this is what makes people feel that a car is safer: they themselves are in control, and can believe that they'd miraculously dodge any crashes through skill and luck. I don't know if that sense of control is transferable, though; paranoid backseat drivers are still a thing.
  - LaGrange 13y ago
    She tried. It was actually no problem, but didn't help. Apparently the lack of impact (i.e. "I'm gonna die and can't do anything about it") is exactly the point. In some ways it's hilariously similar to my social anxieties.
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- leot 13y ago
  I remind myself that the vast majority of people who fly and steward planes all day, every day, live to a ripe old age.

zhoutong 13y ago

I was scheduled to arrive in SFO today and now my flight is canceled.

dllthomas 13y ago

If she does, it might be worth pointing out that there was apparently little-if-any loss of life (though we certainly don't have all the details yet...)

dllthomas 13y ago
Apparently it was two dead, others injured.