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I don't like this article; I find it argumentatively weak. I fully agree with the premises and conclusions, but the path it takes to get there is severely lacki
by saraid216 13y ago
I don't like this article; I find it argumentatively weak. I fully agree with the premises and conclusions, but the path it takes to get there is severely lacking. So I'm going to offer a better path.
Critics of the welfare state, like Murray, prefer to talk about choice rather than hardship. Their general argument can be summed up as, "They made poor choices, and are now facing the consequences of those choices." The problem with this perspective isn't the profound lack of empathy, but rather a presumption that there exists a system of perfect information that everyone is tapped into.
Choices have consequences. But we rarely see the many possibilities a choice can yield, let alone the probable weightings of each one. Even granted the great presumption that everyone should be perfectly rational, it still depends on perfect information. "She shouldn't have had a child with the wrong guy," says Murray, and Maharidge seems to just accept this. The proper response would have been to dig deeper. Should she have made sure that she couldn't have children first before having sex? Should she have not had sex? How could she verify that that guy was the right guy?
And this still presumes that she had a choice in having sex with him in the first place. But perhaps more to the point, how would she have known each of those things? How would she have discovered that birth control exists? How would she have been afforded sex education and family planning strategies? This isn't a feminism/sexism issue, though I'm veering a little too close to that.
We know things because we learn them. We hear about them through rumor and this is filtered through whatever heuristics and analytical brain software we happen to have available. And yet these pathways for comprehending information and sifting truth are built on trial and error. We learn something; we believe it; we find that a certain part wasn't true after all; we adjust; we move on.
This process happens. We make mistakes. That's how we learn what consequences exist to the choices we make. Yes, we make bad choices, but this is frequently, virtually always, because we could not see with perfect clarity what consequences there would be. That's what experimentation is. Because at the end of the day, we don't really have a choice. We can't change the laws of physics so that a ball we throw into the air doesn't come back down. I might choose to throw the ball up, but I can't choose whether or not it comes back down. The limit of choice is reality, and we do not have a perfect understanding of reality.
By placing the burden of consequences on those who did not know them before making the choice, you ask them to supercede reality. That's something of a stretch in to call a reasonable expectation.
When you talk to hardworking poor people about their lives, you'll find that a common question is, "What could I have done differently? How could I have done better?" And I ask you this: if choice is the final word, why are these questions being asked?
- yummyfajitas 13y agoThe proper response would have been to dig deeper. Should she have made sure that she couldn't have children first before having sex? Should she have not had sex? How could she verify that that guy was the right guy? Are you asserting that knowledge of birth control is somehow unavailable, as is knowledge that vaginal sex leads to pregnancy?
- anon1385 13y agoAre most people well informed about the failure rate of birth control? In my experience many are not. The original quote about her having the child of the wrong guy may as well say she 'got raped by the wrong guy'. We are rarely masters of our own fate, although I can see why you as a very wealthy individual like to delude yourself into thinking that, it's more comforting.
- yummyfajitas 13y agoThe birth rate for unmarried women is 4.7%, and the pregnancy rate for unmarried women is about 9%. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/unmarry.htm http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/unmarry.htm http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr56/nvsr56_15.pdf http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr56/nvsr56_15.pdf The "perfect use" (i.e., use a condom every time) failure rate of condoms is about 2%. So at least 60% of unmarried women who give birth and 80% of unmarried women who get pregnant did so as a result of choosing to have sex without a condom.
- potatolicious 13y agoThat's not what "perfect use" means. Perfect use means using a form of birth control every time and using it correctly. Information about contraceptives is greatly lacking in many parts of the US, and condoms in particular can fail in a litany of ways besides their non-use, mostly due to user error. > "So at least 60% of unmarried women who give birth and 80% of unmarried women who get pregnant did so as a result of choosing to have sex without a condom." You're seriously reaching here. This files under the same logic as "20% of animals in the zoo are elephants, therefore the other 80% are alligators". You're jumping from "perfect use (with a gross misunderstanding of the definition of perfect use) failure rate of condoms is 2%" to "therefore it follows that everyone who doesn't fall into bucket A falls into bucket B".