This is almost completely unrelated to problems of children disrupting a class, not complying with requests, not listening, etc. Which are real issues. These ar

This is almost completely unrelated to problems of children disrupting a class, not complying with requests, not listening, etc. Which are real issues. These are not strictly moral issues, but we are screwing kids over if we don't try to help them learn these skills in some compassionate and effective way, and we are screwing over all the other kids in a class when we do nothing about disruptions. What a kid wants right in this moment is not always what is best for the kid in the long term, even more often not what is best for other kids.