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X4’s first line on Karma affecting your mood and life is dead on. Divorcing your self-esteem from these social indicators is important, but difficult as the wh
by nmcfarl 13y ago
X4’s first line on Karma affecting your mood and life is dead on. Divorcing your self-esteem from these social indicators is important, but difficult as the whole point of them is social coercion.
Which in a round about way brings us back to why you should care (but only a little)- karma exists to push people into conforming with the rules of society on the site. If you are being punished too badly in the karma ranks you are not conforming. (Karma also has a lot of noise - a little punishment is to be expected.) This will presumably be punished with a hell ban after some instance of severe enough non-conformity, and with that you’ll be straight out of the community.
I’d look at what you are doing, and if the things you are being punished for are things that matter to you (and thus perhaps you should give up on this place), or are stylistic, or some form of social grace. In the latter cases you could conform with little sacrifice and that would give you a better platform to interact with others on the site, while at the same time removing those ugly drops in karma:)
- websitescenes 13y agoAlso a very sobering addition. Conformity has always been very hard for me and has caused me problems throughout my life. I've been kicked out of schools and thrown in jail for non conformity. Knowing this I have to constantly battle this emotion inside me. I want to be part of this community because I love tech and development. I need to find my place here and I think this comment helps me. Thanks