The problem with this advice is that the majority of woman in the majority of cultures will pretty much be put off by you asking. They do not want sex to be li

The problem with this advice is that the majority of woman in the majority of cultures will pretty much be put off by you asking. They do not want sex to be like that, go ahead, ask a woman. They want spontaneity, they want a man to take control, they want to feel desired. Actually demanding that consent be explicitly verbal suggests that you're a white knight who hasn't been with a lot of woman.