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> And not go up and rape a woman, but perhaps take a chance and put their hand on the girls shoulder during conversation to show interest, where they might have
by king_jester 13y ago
> And not go up and rape a woman, but perhaps take a chance and put their hand on the girls shoulder during conversation to show interest, where they might have otherwise oddly looked away from them. Also, there's a huge difference between personal conduct in a night club and in a library.
Touching someone you don't know is a no-no and many people find that form of contact (even in a night club) to be disturbing. Touching someone without their permission is just something you shouldn't be doing.
- rlt 13y agoOh please, we're now comparing touching someone's shoulder in a night club with sexual assault? If you don't want any contact at all with other human beings you probably shouldn't be in a night club.
- xauronx 13y agoOr anywhere in the public for that matter.
- king_jester 13y agoThere is a difference between accidental contact from being in public and having someone intentionally do the kind of shit the kickstarter project was advocating. Also, being at a night club is not an automatic invitation to touch someone, saying so is implying that women deserve the unwanted contact put upon them.
- papsosouid 13y agoSee, this is exactly the sort of ridiculous, reactionary nonsense at the heart of these crusades. No, touching someone's shoulder is not rape. You may define yourself as the moral minority, selflessly protecting everyone from imaginary evils, but your opinion is a tiny, minuscule, insignificant minority. Virtually everyone disagrees with you.
- king_jester 13y agoI didn't say touching someone's shoulder was rape, but you don't have the right to touch someone if they don't want you to or have affirmed that you may.
- hackinthebochs 13y ago>Touching someone without their permission is just something you shouldn't be doing. I think its pretty clear reading the comments on this post who has actual experience in typical social settings and who doesn't. (Hint: you don't)
- king_jester 13y agoAh of course, respecting people's physical boundaries makes me anti-social.
- hackinthebochs 13y agoRespecting people's physical boundaries does NOT mean verbally requesting permission to enter their personal airspace! Why must you guys pretend non verbal communication doesn't exist?
- Dewie 13y agoYou should go to Latin America and tell them that they've been interacting in a universally inappropriate way all this time.