So, like when a car sales man insists you sit in the expensive car to see how it feels, so one is forced to rebuff him? Sounds similar yo me. Why isn't this ju

So, like when a car sales man insists you sit in the expensive car to see how it feels, so one is forced to rebuff him? Sounds similar yo me. Why isn't this just taking the initiative then? Being proactive? It seem to me that these days men are expected to sit around, do nothing, say little, and have a lawyer ready.