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"it is their judgment, it is their consent that matters. Not yours." Amen brother.

• Cushman 13y ago
  Just to be clear, because this is something misogynists like to pick on, both matter. The point of this is that you can't assume their consent just because you do. Of course, men who don't have experience with not having the power to consent struggle with this idea.
  • angersock 13y ago
    Well put.
  • tomp 13y ago
    Why do you have to disgrace yourself by using the word "misogynist"?
• tomp 13y ago
  That's true, but if she lacks consent, she should also voice it/make it clear at some point (disregarding obviously illegal power-imbalanced situations such as student/teacher, boss/worker, ...). Someone shouldn't be charged with rape just because their partner, after passionately and vigorously fucking the whole night, says she actually didn't want to the whole time.