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Quite a direct story. And it's hard to find that line where further advancements suddenly become unwelcome. I guess the advice "know your limits" is what we hav

• DennisP 13y ago
  When someone screams "no" and bites you hard on the arm, that's a clue.
• wpietri 13y ago
  I don't think it's hard to know the line where further advances become unwelcome. I ask. It's surprisingly easy; you should try it.
  • Chris2048 13y ago
    > you should try it Is that some kind of bad-faith accusation?
    • wpietri 13y ago
      "The wicked flee when no man pursueth." No, it was encouragement to try it.
      • Chris2048 13y ago
        and yet the word 'try' implies to me some other meaning. Why not try talking straight instead of abstractly?
        • wpietri 13y ago
          No, you infer some other meaning. That's all you. I meant what I said, and I said what I meant.
          • chris_wot 13y ago
            Unfortunately, not everyone knows what you mean.
• chris_wot 13y ago
  If the other party says "no", "stop", "I'm not comfortable with this", or any number of other things like this, then you stop. Immediately.