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Let's say you're right. Does that change the fact that you're telling him how to grieve?
by Helianthus 13y ago
Let's say you're right. Does that change the fact that you're telling him how to grieve?
- ars 13y agoIs that really so bad to do that? After all he was told by his monastery how to grieve, and he's telling everyone else here how to grieve (although he did apologize if his views bothered someone). If you simply relate what you are doing OK, but once you want people to follow your views you must also be willing to accept some opinions back, and it's OK if you disagree. (And obviously actually changing is entirely the choice of the person.) Plus, keep in mind that he is hardly the only person reading this. But, all that said, and reading your reply https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5896351 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5896351 I do get your point about what I am doing. It's just I VERY strongly disagree with what he said, and I couldn't just leave it unremarked.
- Helianthus 13y agoA bit late to say this, but: fair enough. Though I do not think it fair to say his monastery "told him" how to grieve; active learning is not being ordered, and in general is quite the opposite.