I agree with your point in theory, but I don't think that is what is happening in this situation. This is not a single person with a megaphone taking issue wit

I agree with your point in theory, but I don't think that is what is happening in this situation. This is not a single person with a megaphone taking issue with something and insisting that the world accommodate their needs, it's a group of people (men and women) taking issue with the decisions a person made and the way a community reacted to that decision. These people who are objecting are not outsiders, these are people within the community and if they can make good arguments as to why the community did something wrong, I don't see any reason why the community shouldn't change. A "tough luck, throw your own party" argument really doesn't apply here.