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Because there is a world of difference between "being gay" and "acting on being gay". The homophobic self loathing repressed closet cases always try to define
by SimHacker 13y ago
Because there is a world of difference between "being gay" and "acting on being gay".
The homophobic self loathing repressed closet cases always try to define "gay" as "acting on being gay" so that they can rationalize their feelings that they have to work so hard to repress.
The actual definition of "being gay" revolves around having those feelings, not acting on them. Otherwise there would be no such thing as a gay virgin, or a straight virgin for that matter. If "being gay" or "being straight" had to do with behavior, not feelings, then you couldn't be straight without first having had straight sex.
- sp332 13y agoIf being gay is about feeling, how can anyone say that a person is born gay? You're not born with feelings, are you?
- SimHacker 13y agoYou've got to be joking, right? Please tell me you don't have kids. Please.
- sp332 13y agoPeople are attracted to specific other people at specific times in a variety of ways. I can see how it's useful to define terms for certain categories or patterns of feelings. But why would we expect people to immutably belong to one of these categories of convenience?