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Of course? Gay or straight is who you're attracted to, not who you have sex with. And this is not at all what you were saying further up in the tread? You were
by jules 13y ago
Of course? Gay or straight is who you're attracted to, not who you have sex with. And this is not at all what you were saying further up in the tread? You were talking about attraction, not who you have sex with. I think everybody pretty much agrees that who you have sex with is a choice (except for the issue of whether free will exists at all). So far the evidence points to that being gay or straight, that is, who you're attracted to, is at least for the most part not a choice.
- sp332 13y agoI agree there have been a lot of topics in this thread :) But my point way back up at the top is just this: If being gay is defined by who you're attracted to, and "who you're attracted to" can change, then "being gay" is probably not something hardwired into you before you are born. Correlate, sure. Not something you can consciously control, sure. But I really think it's something that must be taken on a moment-by-moment basis, not a lifetime-by-lifetime basis.
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