If I knew someone judged my judgement of their petty behavior -- I might not want to work with them anymore! That was facetious and ostensibly hypocritical but

If I knew someone judged my judgement of their petty behavior -- I might not want to work with them anymore! That was facetious and ostensibly hypocritical but in all seriousness I judge people constantly and they rarely measure up. This should be true for most people. We can only judge what we're aware of and what we're aware of we're usually good at. I realize (everyone's different | ymmv | to each his own | etc). I still think I know whats best for people in a few domains. Sometimes I'm wrong but that hasn't stopped me. I've encountered enough people like you to know that if I try to help them, even if it's completely earnest, they'll think I'm being condescending. Now I bite my tongue and worry about the person who could be helping me but is instead silently judging.