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Wow. This is incredibly judgmental. You're assuming that everyone else functions and succeeds in the same way you do. If I knew that someone I was going to work
by Zarkonnen 13y ago
Wow. This is incredibly judgmental. You're assuming that everyone else functions and succeeds in the same way you do. If I knew that someone I was going to work with even half-seriously judged people on the status of their sink -- I'm not sure I would want to work with them anymore.
- verbin217 13y agoIf I knew someone judged my judgement of their petty behavior -- I might not want to work with them anymore! That was facetious and ostensibly hypocritical but in all seriousness I judge people constantly and they rarely measure up. This should be true for most people. We can only judge what we're aware of and what we're aware of we're usually good at. I realize (everyone's different | ymmv | to each his own | etc). I still think I know whats best for people in a few domains. Sometimes I'm wrong but that hasn't stopped me. I've encountered enough people like you to know that if I try to help them, even if it's completely earnest, they'll think I'm being condescending. Now I bite my tongue and worry about the person who could be helping me but is instead silently judging.