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Wow, sounds rough. You seem bitter and hurt by the whole experience still. Let me just tell you: this experience is good for you in the long run. I can tell you
by nvarsj 13y ago
Wow, sounds rough. You seem bitter and hurt by the whole experience still. Let me just tell you: this experience is good for you in the long run. I can tell you as someone who sits on the ASD scale, I've had some painful periods in my early life where my brain locked on and obsessed over similar rejections. And the obsession and bitterness didn't do me an ounce of good. But later on I accepted it and realized the experience itself made me a wiser, better person.
As to your experience - sounds normal to me (unfortunately). You didn't fit the culture, or at least ended up working with some anti-you people. Maybe you weren't brogrammer enough. It happens to most everyone at some point in their career. I suggest you take from it what you can - when to recognize that things are not working out as early as possible, and to never expose yourself to risk as an at-will employee (always have a money backup!).
- nilkn 13y ago> always have a money backup! If it was his first job out of college, he may not have had much of a choice here. Wouldn't his signing bonus have been revoked since he wasn't employed for a full year? (Not a Facebook employee, not sure on their offer details.)
- anon12345678 13y agoYou only lose it if you leave voluntarily, so no.
- orik 13y agoSometimes "always have a money backup" seems to be as useful advice as "be white and have rich parents".