You do really get that in every single human pursuit though. I could be so sucessful with girls only if I had a better pad/ more charisma/ more money / more ha

You do really get that in every single human pursuit though. I could be so sucessful with girls only if I had a better pad/ more charisma/ more money / more hair in places it belongs. 99 out of 100 of these things will be just phony excuses, you could frankly do without. For example with hair, look at this guy: http://www.absoluteability.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/neil-strauss-before-and-after.jpg http://www.absoluteability.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/ne... Hair was really not his problem, and he realized that.