I think for me what it comes down to is 'F U money'. I will feel successful when I have enough money earned and saved that any storm can be weathered, even if

I think for me what it comes down to is 'F U money'. I will feel successful when I have enough money earned and saved that any storm can be weathered, even if I decide to walk into said storm (leave via an 'F U', hence the name). It might not be a reality. It might not even be attainable (maybe the bar keeps moving), but that's my criteria.