I actually like shopping, but I hate most salespeople that do this for a simple reason: 99% of them are clueless, don't have particularly good taste, and are ar

I actually like shopping, but I hate most salespeople that do this for a simple reason: 99% of them are clueless, don't have particularly good taste, and are are far more interested in goading me into a quick sale than actually helping me. "May I help you?" is annoying enough, but "Are you looking for pants or tops today?" is a huge red flag, because it's no less generic in fact, and sounds like a cynical attempt to weasel around a customer's instinctive reaction ("No thank you") to the first question, and make it harder for them to quickly disengage. There are clueful, tasteful, and truly helpful salespeople out there, but in my experience, they almost always have the tact and judgment to read body language and just let you browse until it's clear you really want assistance. If they do say something they're careful to use a light touch, and make it easy for the customer to quickly demur; they certainly don't use linguistic tricks like the article advocates in order to trap the customer into "engagement."